To suffer for love?

There is a theory that we do not suffer for love, but unresolved empty when we were younger. Horacio Valsecia Psychologist said "It is absolutely impossible to suffer for love, it suffers from shortcomings and emotional wounds of childhood."

Think about it. Maybe you're not suffering or you have suffered for love, truly. Yes not see your dreams fulfilled, which imagined for years. By enduring treatment you do not deserve to save the couple. Wanting you consider that a certain person in a special way, or you choose as a partner (or partner) life, and you have failed. Focus on what really causes a problem is very useful in order to solve it and start getting past the pain it causes.

If you're in a couple you produce dissatisfaction, at some point you chose, for some reason. Knowing this will allow you to heal what reason necessary. If you feel that love too, but you do not appreciate and get hurt, that is how to relate in a partner, first you precisarías change this harmful belief to pursue a healthier pair bond.

Also, if you've left a lot of side to be with someone or you find yourself in a relationship that makes you happy, what matters is that you dive within yourself to see why you're with this person, do you repeat your family history, do you get actually. The solution is not in the other ("the problem is that calls to me, I do not pay attention, do not give me what I need") but in yourself. I'm not saying it's easy to modify this type of relationship, take charge of your own life and leave suffering behind. What I'm saying is that it is possible and worthwhile.

If you are "stuck" (or trapped) in a troubled relationship and you feel that you suffer for love, you have the key to the solution in your hands. Did you intend to use?